2018 INTJ Valentine’s Day (or Not) Gift Guide
Loving love is all good fun until you break bae’s heart by getting the totally wrong gift. Suddenly, turns out you aren’t the one after all. Boy, bye! Ok, so there’s more to romance than getting a nice gift. Romance is about getting the perfect gift. Really. It is. Of course, the perfect gift could be time, or it could be a lobster dinner topped off with a 3-carat diamond in a glass of strawberry champagne. If your love is an INTJ then getting the perfect gift can be more daunting than buying for other MBTI types. By the way, if you’re in the love-to-hate-love camp, no worries. We’ve got your back when it comes to Galentine’s (celebrating Valentine’s with your gal pals), or SingSib status (single since birth). Whatever your status, V-day doesn’t have to be a depressing affair, especially when it is a day that can be about celebrating loving yourself, your friends, and your family.
Whether you’ve got a special someone, or you’re looking to treat yourself, or another loved one, our guide may help you find the perfect Valentine’s Day gift.
VALENTINE’S DAY PLANS
Blackheart Floral Lace Choker Set – Hot Topic, $9.90
Get your Gothic romance on with these delicate lace chokers, sure to add the perfect finishing touches to any Valentine’s day look.
Spongelle Mani-Pedi Treatment Set – Box Lunch, $9.59
Treat yourself, or your special someone, with a little TLC.
Date Night In: More Than 120 Recipes to Nourish Your Relationship – Jet, $20.20
Rekindle the romance with a stay-in date night where you prepare a delicious meal for two.
Fix-It and Forget-It Cooking for Two: 150 Small-Batch Slow Cooker Recipes – Jet, 16.29
You want a wholesome and delicious meal for your romantic dinner, but you just don’t have the time to prepare after a long day at work. Most slow cooker cookbooks offer recipes for a crowd. This fix-it-and-forget-it slow cooker for two is perfect for pre-prep date night dinner.
Burgundy Smocked Off-Shoulder Velvet Girls Top – Hot Topic, $19.90
Bring out the romantic feelings with this burgundy shirt, perfect for any Valentine’s Day dinner.
Floral Hair Twist Set – Urban Outfitters, $10.00
Get flirty by adding flower clips, sure to add to any romantic look.
Not too Sure about this Love Thing
I Tolerate You Hi-Top Sneakers – Hot Topic, $24.90
Sometimes love is a matter of tolerance.
I Hate You the Least T-Shirt – Hot Topic, $22.90
If your INTJ is spending time with you, you can be sure they hate you the least…out of everyone they know.
I Need A Hug Just Don’t Touch Me Tee – Hot Topic, $22.90
INTJs can do affection…with a warning of course.
The Secret Language of Relationships offers a fascinating look into why we are drawn to certain people, as well as how astrology can craft a relationship profile between any two individuals! With an amazing 1,176 combinations of personalities, you can better understand any relationship in your life.
30 Day Challenge Notepad – Urban Outfitters, $12.00
Take the 30-day love challenge with this fun notepad set.
The Little Book of Flirting By Sadie Cayman – Urban Outfitters, $8.95
Flirting isn’t an INTJ’s strong suit, but it can’t hurt to learn a few tips for that cutie that you’ve got your eye on.
You Are My Favorite Pain in the Ass – Jet, $19.29
Sometimes your partner is a pain, but you love them anyway.
Single, But That’s Ok
Date myself, Monsters, Inc. T-Shirt – Hot Topic, $24.90
INTJS have their own ideas on what’s romantic. Turns out you’re a perfect match for yourself.
5 Reasons Why I’m Not Married Sweatshirt – Tee Shirt Palace, $44.99
Tired of people asking where your special someone is? Let your sweater answer the question.
The Princess Saves Herself in This One – Jet, $11.99
Winner of the 2016 Goodreads Choice Award, the princess saves herself in this one is a collection of poetry about resilience. It is about writing your own ending.
Too Kawaii For You Foil Heart Girls T-Shirt – Hot Topic $22.90
Sometimes the reason you’re single is because the available options just aren’t that great. You’re too Kawaii (cute) for all of them.
Rookie On Love By Tavi Gevinson – Urban Outfitters, $14.95
A single-subject anthology about the heart’s most powerful emotion put together by actress, editor-in-chief + founder of the online magazine, Rookie, Tavi Gevinson. Featuring exclusive, never-before-seen essays, poems, comics + interviews.
Graphic Soy Candle – Urban Outfitters, $14.00
This candle is the perfect reminder to not forget to love yourself, too!
Braving the Wilderness: The Quest for True Belonging and the Courage to Stand Alone – Jet, $24.17
“True belonging doesn’t require us to change who we are. It requires us to be who we are.” Social scientist Brene Brown, Ph.D. LMSW, has sparked a global conversation about the experiences that bring meaning to our lives–experiences of courage, vulnerability, love, belonging, shame, and empathy. In Braving the Wilderness, Brown redefines what it means to truly belong in an age of increased polarization.
