INTJ Music Playlist #20: Paradoxical Love

It’s February and love is in the air, or, for all the single ladies, in our thoughts. Relationships can be taxing for the introverted INTJ, which is why they are careful in choosing to whom they will give their affection. When we care, we truly care. Romantic love, however, can be complicated, and whether we want to admit it or not, Valentine’s Day can stir up negative feelings toward romance when you're not part of a couple. Whether you're sporting a pair of so-in-love-rose-tinted glasses or breathing in the anti-cupid spray, we’ve got a playlist that’s just as complicated as the spectrum of feelings on romance.

2018 INTJ Valentine’s Day (or Not) Gift Guide

2018 INTJ VALENTINES DAY (OR NOT) GIFT GUIDE: Loving love is all good fun until you break bae's heart by getting the totally wrong gift. Suddenly, turns out you aren’t the one after all. Boy, bye! Ok, so there's more to romance than getting a nice gift. Romance is about getting the perfect gift. Really. It is.

Always Uttori Hotties of Instagram 2018 Rules

Our readers are looking for a hero. No, I don’t mean a guy who dons a red cape, rides a white stallion, and rescues damsels in distress. I’m talking about a guy who takes the time to understand them; a guy who doesn’t have to be the center of attention, a guy who has patience for guardedness, who accepts the imperfections of paradox; a guy who is not threatened by, and who respects, independence. A true hero is competent, reflective, committed, and intelligent. If that’s you, let us share your story and your Instagram through our 2018 Always Uttori Instagram Hotties Promotion. We will be selecting up to 8 Instagrams to highlight during the month of February. Yours could be one of them. Want to find out how?

5 INTJ Love Questions Answered

The month of love is at its end, but the topics revolving around INTJ and love/relationships are endless. To say goodbye to February, I’ve taken 5 questions that I’ve been asked about INTJs and love, and tried to shed some light on the complexities of the INTJ mind. Let’s get into it… 5 Questions about [...]

Introvert Love: Loving the INTJ girl + Date Night Look 4

Introvert Love: Loving the INTJ girl + Date Night Look 4 Loving the INTJ Female We’ve been talking about the individual components that make up the INTJ female: guarded, independent, paradoxical, and committed. While we can talk about all of these traits individually, it’s the sum of these traits that make up the INTJ female. [...]

Introvert Love: INTJ, Loving The Committed Girl

THE COMMITTED GIRL For me, February's approach brought with it a sense of dread as I considered the topics associated with the month of love. Being an INTJ, I really did not want to discuss love, did not want to think about love, did not want to look back on my "dating" life and assess. [...]